Thursday 31 July 2014

20 things to do when you don't know what to do

Lost?

And confused? 
And do you feel like things in your life haven't found their place yet? Its all so messy, sketchy, vague, mixed up, and you wake up in the morning thinking to yourself... where is my life going?

And you ask yourself the most important question: what do I want to do with my life?

As much as I would love to say I have found the solution to all those question, the truth is... I don't.

Sometimes you can find immediate answers to your problems, and sometimes you wish you could, but you don't know where to begin. 

But I do know some things you can do to stop mulling over it, even if its for a little while. They might not solve it all, but they will help. Here are somethings you can do on the days when you don't know what to do.

  1. Grab a Yoga mat, and do some stretches. Which will not only make your body feel better, but improve your mood.
  2. Drink the strongest coffee/tea possible. You need that extra caffeine boost to kick that feeling away.
  3. Go for a walk. The fresh air will do you good.
  4. Eat chocolate. Anything chocolate. Mmmmm cake. 
  5. Go out for a little date with yourself. 
  6. Watch a movie you wouldn't normally go for. Maybe in another language? 
  7. Eat at your favorite restaurant, bring a friend along.
  8. Get your head massaged. Nothing beats a good head massage.
  9. Sleep.
  10. Play your favorite song.
  11. Sing in the shower.
  12. Call a friend, bug him/her at work/college/school if you have to.
  13. Hug someone. You will not the believe the benefits of hugging. 
  14. People watch.
  15. Spend some time with a pet.
  16. Buy yourself the most fancy notebook you can find.
  17. Walk into your local comic book store. Geek happiness, right there.
  18. Go shopping for a new book. Take your time picking one.
  19. Buy yourself the nicest pen to go with that notebook.
  20. And the most recommended tip to give: Write. Write it all down in that notebook your just bought. Write whatever you feel in a different environment. Make sure you don't get up till you have written everything you wanted to say about what you feel and what you want to do. List down everything that makes you feel the way you currently are and prioritize them. Use a laptop if you prefer, but be sure to write it down.
That's what I just did :]


Sunday 27 July 2014

Opening your storybook

I have a new segment.

Which I am sure you must have noticed. Its right next to the home page tab and its something which I hold very dear.

My writing.

Its called Storybook, because I believe everyone has story to share. It may be in the form of real life experiences, of fiction where they trap memories and emotions through other characters. Now it has been a while since I have written a piece, but hopefully you will enjoy what I have to offer! Let me know what you think. :)


Image from Google.

Wednesday 23 July 2014

Snapping out, and getting over: the Monday Blues


Its MONDAY! 

Or Tuesday in Asia. 

And I know what you must be feeling, the dreaded, despised and taunting, Monday blues.

Now Monday blues is a scenario where you feel low, or depressed or just not your usual chirpy self on Sunday nights to Monday morning. The mood however, instantly vanishes when Monday is over, as you inch one day closer to the next weekend. 

You’d be surprised how many of us face the dreaded blues without even realizing it. Unable to get your work done, procrastination and just unwanted negative energy, all translates to the underlining reason: I don’t want to go back to work.

To fix yourself up, here are some of the things I have tried (and tested!) to help you get over them blues once and for all! 


Its all in the mind 

Ever thought that maybe the feeling of being upset on Mondays is all in your mind? Think about it, if you just tell yourself that oh, its just Monday, and I have so and so things to do today, so what? Its not going to affect me, I don’t really care. Its just another day. Try repeating it to yourself just before you are about to go to sleep on Sunday night: Monday? Bah, doesn't bother me!


Have that Monday night plan 

Maybe you don't like Mondays because you have nothing but endless work and more work to look to. Why not have something to look forward to like a plan or activity after work? What I tried to do was to save all my TV show watching for Monday nights. So it became synonymous with, Monday? Means I get to watch my favorite TV show. (Currently its My Love From Another Star.) Why don't you plan that friends night out? Or join health or hobby classes? Go watch that favorite movie that just came out! Make those plans happen!

Reason behind blue 

Too much work? Annoying co-worker? The boss you don't want to face or just the after effects of a brilliant weekend you never wanted to end? What's your reason behind the blue? Once you know what is bothering you, you can work better towards solving it. Its easier to do that it sounds. Your mind has a way of picking on a reason to feel blue but subconsciously doesn't display the reason why. Find out what is bothering you and see what you can do about it!  


Change of job?

Maybe the reason you don't like Mondays is because of the most integral part of you feeling off: your job
You don't want to get back to work is because you don't like your job in the first place! Its boring, lifeless, its not fulfilling and definitely not rewarding enough, They maybe its time to think of that switch. Its a big step, but you can go on hating Mondays forever right? If you can do something about your job, then a change would be greatly welcomed. 

Monday game plan

Now for the fear of sounding like every other self help article on the web, changing your job is easier said that one. I mean, practicality needs to account for something, right? But if your job switch isn't a ready option then here are some other things you can do:
  • Plan out your day. Organize work to such an extend where you won't have to hustle through.
  • Prepare an early start. If you get to work a little before time, you can get started on your work earlier and have more time to neatly work your way through the day.
  • Grab a happy pick me up, listen to your favorite song, switch that coffee for a hot chocolate, try to start your morning routine by doing something different than before. It will give your day a new and refreshed outlook and make you, feel less blue!


There are some little changes you can adapt to fix your morning blues. Try stumbling on a few funny, inspirational sites to help you along the week. Mondays are just a part of your weekly processes and it shouldn't set the mood for the entire week. Pick yourself up, do it soon and be sure to rid of Monday blues forevaaa!

Sipping on Green Tea on my Monday, how about you?

Images taken from Google. I do not own any.

Sunday 20 July 2014

Things you should know about your first REAL job!

Hello and Hello! 
Because I am all brand new to my 2nd job (man, time flies) I decided to share something I wrote for my first job.

So without further adieu...

Things your should know about your first REAL job:


So I have been working with this advertising company for exactly 10 days now and the information I have come to know, realize, read about is immeasurable. Its just a new world altogether so everything you do is on another take on things, so take it from someone who is experiencing it first hand, whatever they tell you about the work life is a Lie till you have experienced it yourself first hand.

SO many people, so many thoughts, realizations, everything.

So what are the list on things to know about your first real job?

You are going to get fat if you don't get in some routine exercise daily.


Though I don't think much of this applies if your job entitles you to walk around a lot, or go to places and get your butt off a chair. But in my job? Yeah. I sit at a desk from 10 to 6. With the occasional trip to the lunch area or the bathroom or my boss's desk. This bothers me because I have been a victim of chubbiness when I was younger, but... Due to an (unfortunate) obsession with my weight back in the 9th grade, I lost most of my unwanted fat, lost a good amount of weight, and slowly... My love for food overcame my weight obsession and my days of calorie counting were over! And since then I maintained a fluctuating healthy weight with no compromise on food whatsoever. And being (nearly) 6 foot tall helps the metabolism bit too. 

Heh. But thats not the point. The point is... I need some exercise soon. And so do you!



You NEED to have other plans/events/activities to do.


Sitting in a 4 x 4 cubicle, literally spells monotony. If you aren't careful, you will slowly slip into the shades of grey, fifty or how many ever in number yourself. Which you NEED to avoid at all cost. Notice me Capitalizing the 'NEED'. Because you have to, have to, have to, have something to look forward to, or to do or experience. It is vital you do your job alongside the a side project to keep your inner vitality and creativity safe from the monotony monsters. 

Me? Here is a glorious mini list I made in my head to keep me occupied: 

  1. Finish all the damn video games I wanted to play. Currently playing Kingdoms of Amalur, then Portal, Skyrim, AC, and so on. I get an hour or two of gameplay every day if I can. 
  2. I'm planning to read a lot. Especially my commute time to work. I load my dear dear 10 year old PPC with ebooks and read away! Currently I'm reading Silver linings playbook by Mathew Quick. 
  3. Start up this blog! 
  4. Surf Stumbleupon.com like never before! That is another way to keep me occupied for Hours and Hours. 
  5. Plan things out. Like a weekend schedule or a Late Night Movie with my younger kid brother. 
  6. Research. Ever wondered why the hair around your crown is so fragile? What your body shape is and what suites you? I always wanted to know, but never had the time to Google it. So now I am. Alongside working of course! 

Talk to more people at work. 


It helps in many ways. Networking is not always using people to make contacts and get ahead of them. I like to think of networking at work as actually talking to people and getting to know them better. You will be working with them after all, so why not acquaint yourself more? It took me 2 days to talk to the girl who sits in the next cubicle as me. I really dont know why. For a week I used to eat lunch alone, thinking the people here have already formulated groups and I'd be just getting in the way, but as a matter of fact I didnt make enough effort. And they welcomed me with hardly any effort on my end. Now (well, for the past 2 days anyway) I sit with them during lunch. They may be a few years older but they are really friendly. Look what I was missing out on, so... you really need to put yourself out there.

Be so SO humbled. 


Soo.... I really hope I didnt give out the 'Spoiled NRI' vibe. These people are so nice, from humble beginnings and here I go flashing my Micheal Kors bag around for a week. Oh god. I am very humbled from what I have seen and the entire snob facade I had to deal with a majority of my life does apply here! Well... this one is a subjective truth because I know in most work places you dress to impress and get that promotion or whatever. So... I'm lucky that way. Its pretty chilled out here. And I So like it that way.


Its a loooong way to go. 


You just started your career! Depending on your priority in life you would considering facing the fact that you have just started and you have a looong way to go. Take my career profile for example. I want to be a creative directory in advertising. And for that I need to go through the levels of: Trainee, Junior copy writer, copy writer, senior copy writer and copy supervisor and then.... CD! Taking 6 months for each, or a year for that matter, it would take me anywhere from 3-6 years. 3 on the really optimistic end. And six on the practical end. SO dont be disheartened.

Don't count how many restaurants you are going to visit before your first paycheck. 


Save. Save like the world is running out of money and your meager salary will be worth millions soon. That being said, be practical about you money. Initially we idealize what we are going to buy before we even get our salary. The feeling of financial (part) independence is very overwhelming. Dont let it get to you. Try to save at least 50-60% of your pay, it going to come in hand sooner or later. As for me? That reference was made because I do this thing with a friend where I go to new places and try out new cuisines, but back then, I was happily funded but my dear parents. Now.... its a new whole ball game.

 Perk up your desk! 


Trust me it helps you get through the day. I don't have much on my table right now except an evil eye charm a friend had given to me. But I already have major ideas the moment I get full time. Cant wait!


Breathe and STREEEEETCH 


God, one week and my back is Killing me. And being tall really doesn't help. You sit at your desk, hunched over a computer screen and soon enough your back feels like crap. You have to take breaks and stretch. I know I need to, considering I get really weird looks from everyone while I do so, but I really don't care. I'm all neck stretch, arms stretch, back stretch, and aaaah. Temporarily. I started googling how to sit at work =| which level your computer screen needs to be and everything. I need a workout too. 

Keep calm and well... keep calm. 


That's like a mantra in itself. I'm just sitting here, ready to finish week 2, looking forward to the weekend, reminding me I have a loving family and an eccentric set of friends to meet and make plans with and discuss everything there is to talk about work life and a new phase altogether doesn't really make much of a difference. But more of an adventure. 
So here is to a new life, a start of one anyway, and I really hope my boss approves my concepts in the next ten minutes. 
Back to work!


Haha, wow. I cant believe how many of those things still apply to me right now. Its still a long way to go, and maybe I don't want to be a copy writer anymore. Maybe I want to be something else? Who knows? But whatever it is, I know its going to be absolutely FANTASTIC.

Let me know what your advice would be for a person in their first job!

See you soon!
Niki J

Do not own any images.
Images courtesy: Google. 

Tuesday 15 July 2014

Its new, its better AND its HERE!

Hello all you wonderful people!

The lastdaysofsummer/wordpress has moved to Blogger and its now The Days of Rain and Summer!



And I am so excited about this. I dont know why Blogger wasnt my first choice. Clearly I was having problems understanding Wordpress and... maybe it wasnt for me. Blogger seems to be way more ideal, easier and not to mention, I finally found a template I like. AND I can change it whenever!

Now if you are a new reader, Hello! :) I hope to see you more often here. I am a (now 23) working professional with the heart of a child and who I cant seem to part with. I am new to this whole thing called 'adulthood' 'jobs' and 'working' and I started the blog for readers like YOU to share this journey with me. How does one translate their childhood self into this new serious mold, and how can one still be the colorful Vibrant YOU without having to conform to this dull grey corporate life. 

So I share my experiences, my tips and this magical journey life terms as 'Growing up' and everything that falls in between. Yes, Yes, hopefully there will be regular updates because I am pretty excited about this! :]

Hope to see you again!

Good things!
Niki ( I hope to get a digital signature up here soon!)

Images courtesy Google.